Wednesday 11 June 2008

Day -1 My brother's day

I have a day off chemo before tomorrow's infusion of his cells, so I just have some immune suppression drugs starting today, a lot lighter than other days. My counts have plummeted to 0.2 white count, which is expected but always a little scary, and my liver function tests have continued to fall, still abnormal, but heading in the right direction.

Really, today is all about my brother and his amazing donation for me. So I managed to take my pump and breakfast down a floor to where he was getting hooked up to the apherisis machine. He had a catheter inserted into his jugular vein, and I can tell you it's not pretty...luckily for him the position it is in does not allow him to see it! They were just starting to draw the blood out and run it through the spinning machine when I arrived. It's a pretty amazing process that separates the extra stem cells floating in his blood from the other parts of his blood, all based on a tiny difference in the weight of those cells. The remaining blood is circulated back into his veins. To collect enough of the cells, the process takes around 6 hours usually, before they will close up the incision made in his neck and let him go.




Of course, my crazy brother was able to continue doing mortgage deals, all through his blackberry! It probably helps him pass the time and takes away some of the discomfort and pain he has in his neck and when swallowing. He's pretty tough! He also said the bone pain he's been feeling the past couple of days is already subsiding, so it shows his body is doing the right things.



I'll probably pop down and see him again shortly and make sure he's doing okay, and how the cells are collecting....get a picture of what I'll get in me tomorrow! Thanks for all the wishes for us both...it certainly helps to have the support and energy flowing.

9 comments:

La ma tante préférée de l'autre said...

Fantastic ,
You two are quite the exceptional pair .
So glad that everything is going according to plan.It's amazing.
Sending rays of sunshine your way!

Dominique

Mary Ellen said...

Hi Tricia & Brandon,
Thanks so much for these pictures. You two are just amazing! Continuous love, prayers and Qi are being sent your way.

Love & Admiration,
Bob & Mary Ellen xoxoxo

Louise and David said...

Dear Brandon and Tricia,
This is the day that we have been waiting for and our emotions are really running high. Your pictures say it all. What a terrific team you are! At this moment, we love you both more than ever, if that is possible.

We went from tears to laughter when we spotted Brandon's blackberry and read your comment about "business as usual". Once again, Tricia, you have been able to make this extraordinary day in your life seem like the next expected and necessary step in your journey. Because of you, we know what is happening now and what should happen tomorrow. Thank you for the gift of "presence" that your communication has brought to us so far. We are really right there with you every day.

We are relieved that the donation part of your job is done now, Brandon, and that you are already feeling less pain and discomfort. Soon you will swap positions with Tricia and will stand beside her as she receives your gift of life. What a guy!

Tricia, nothing will keep us from being with you in mind and heart all day tomorrow - Day Zero. May all that follows continue to be "better than expected".

Love and prayers,
Louise and David

BJ said...

Dear Tricia and Brandon,
Our deepest admiration and love to you both. You are an awe-inspiring pair and we are with you in spirit as tomorrow looms large in all our lives. The best of everything and God bless.

Love, BJ

barb said...

Tricia and Brandon,

Sending hugs to both of you. You are both a beautiful example of life and love in action.

Thinking of you of each day that has passed since you started and still with you from Day 0 on!!

Love,
Barbara

Sonia said...

Hi Brandon and Tricia,

Awesome pictures, thanks so much for sharing this day with all of us...

We are thinking of you both and wishing the best!!

go get 'em...

Love Sonia

ed said...

Dear Tricia,

I am at a loss for the words to express how I feel about you and Brandon right now. Lots of Love, prayers and Qi continue your way.

Uncle Ed

Vic said...

Hi Tricia
Your earlier reference to rowing the boat reminded me of a saying in the book Apples of Gold. "Life is a voyage in which we choose neither vessel nor weather, but much can be done in the management of the sails and the guidance of the helm." To the best helmsman in the world, sail on! With our thanks, love and prayers to you and your wonderful brother. Vic & Don

. said...

Thinking of you and sending positive energy and prayers your way.

Love Lindsey