Friday 25 January 2008

Perspective

This week was overall a very good week. Aside from several health-related appointments, I did some babysitting (Davis and Jack are pretty hilarious now) and had a wonderful dinner with my sister-in-law Dana. I caught up with some friends, spoke to potential marathon runners about my leukemia experience, and helped my brother out with some of his latest real estate ventures. In a few minutes, I’ll board a plane to Vancouver, to visit Colleen, Allan, Grady and Joelle as well as my grandma Gunn, who is finally getting a private room at the nursing home she is in. I was feeling a bit of “plane” withdrawal, with my last flight over a month ago!

Last Thursday I met Tasha and Ryan at the hospital as she met with her doctor to discuss the results of her recent tests and treatment plans. My role in these visits is really to act as an extra set of ears in the room, taking in all the information the doctor provides and ensuring Tasha’s list of questions gets covered while she’s there. I (as were Tasha and Ryan!) was EXTREMELY pleased to learn that the various scans and tests did NOT indicate the cancer had spread beyond the area it was discovered in. WHEW. However, as those scans cannot give 100% assurance that the cancer is limited to the local area in which it was found, the doctors recommended further surgery around the area, as well as radiation treatment and hormone therapy following that. Chemotherapy was also discussed, as another tool to reduce the risk of recurrence should any sneaky cancer cells manage to escape the additional surgery and radiation. It didn’t take Tasha more than a second to reply “yes” to that option, wanting to hit the cancer with everything possible. I quietly cheered that choice from my chair in the corner of the room.

Following Tasha’s appointment, I whipped over to the bone marrow transplant unit (just down the hall conveniently) to stop in there to let them know of a few funny symptoms I had – after Dr. Brown checked me out, he let me know that he expected my application for the clinical trial to go to Ottawa in about a week. I’ll check back with him to see when it actually goes and let you know as soon as it does!

So, a week from tomorrow Tasha will have yet another surgery, and depending on the pathology report, she will start chemo a couple of weeks later, radiation treatment after than, and finally hormone therapy after that. Tasha was full of energy and drive leaving the hospital, armed with a plan and knowledge that she is now fighting the cancer with everything possible. It’s kind of amazing how positive we all felt that day, given the significant and lengthy treatment path ahead. Perspective sure is powerful.

4 comments:

Louise and David said...

Dear Tricia,
Perspective is everything! That's why we are in such awe of you and Tasha and Ryan and people like you who rejoice in possibilities rather than becoming discouraged by problems.

By now you will be in Vancouver. We hope that you enjoy your visit with Colleen and family, and that you get quality time to spend with Amanda in the nursing home.

We will be waiting for further word on your application for the clinical trial. In the meantime, we hope that your own condition stays strong and stable enough for you to take on whatever treatment lies ahead for you.

Tasha knows that we are keeping her in our minds and hearts as her February 1st surgery approaches.

We don't have to remind you to keep us posted, Tricia. You are doing a terrific job of letting us in on the many ways that you celebrate life and face its challenges.

Much love, Louise and David

Mary Ellen said...

Hi Tricia,
Thanks once again for your update on what's happening. Bob & I are continuing to hope & pray for you & Tasha. As always, your perspective brings a sense of awe to me and also encourages me in my own life. How do you do that? What a girl!
I hope your visit with family in Vancouver is wonderful. Say hi to Amanda from Bob & me.

Lots of love,
Mary Ellen xoxoxoxoox

BJ said...

Hi Tricia,

Thank you for your latest update. We are waiting to hear about your next treatment and steps to recovery. As always we respect and admire all you do and continue to pray for the best for both you and Tasha.

with love and hope,
BJ

Sonia said...

Hi Tricia,

Thanks for the last post. I am so glad you posted what you started in the morning, another eye opener. We all have our moments and thanks for sharing one of yours with us.

I am glad you had a great visit in Vancouver. I have been keeping in touch with Chad on Tasha's surgery, so I am anxiously awaiting her good news...

Take care Tricia!

Cheers