Thursday 22 February 2007

Dancing, visiting and the 90s


This week I've seen that time and age mean nothing. On the weekend, I flew to Regina for my great Aunt Marj's 90th birthday. Saturday afternoon we visited another great Aunt, Emelda, who is also in her 90s, but still living independently and offering jam jam cookies to us guests. Saturday evening was a great party - Aunt Marj's 90th included a dinner and dance and over 90 guests. She stayed until midnight and danced several times to the band Carnival (two of my old elementary and high school teachers played bass and piano!). Truly a day of young ladies in their 90s. It even inspired me to dance a few songs (with shoes off!) which was a remarkable event given my fairly recent inability to walk!

Mom, Colleen, Bob and I stayed at Ellen's house, which allowed lots of visiting with Ellen, Amy and Amy's fiance Ryland. I lived with Ellen and Amy for a while about 10 years ago, so it was wonderful to have the "girls" back together again!


Sunday I visited yet another young lady, Grandma Antonini, who will turn 90 in January. Her hair still naturally red and curly, and dimples still smiling, she seems to me to be younger than she was 15 years ago. I was lucky enough to visit with a bunch of the Antonini's that morning and afternoon as well - Holly and her family (Jamie, Eddie, Mia, Lui and Ellie), Heather, Ed, Deanie, Tony, Carol, Sonia, Len, Kelly, Therese and Christine (A). It was fantastic to see everyone and I look forward to the reunion in August to see everyone.

After a quick dinner visit with the Boyd's and Ellen Sunday evening, we arrived home late that night to Calgary. I had definitely done as much visiting as possible in a 48-hour period and was basically exhausted. Monday and Tuesday I had really significant bone pain and nausea, which kind of wiped me out until last night. It was worth it though!


Last Wednesday I started "day 1" chemo again, and the doctor mentioned to me that the transplant team still reviews my case each week to decide if the chemo I am on currently is the best path. He said there is still talk about revisiting more toxic chemo (as I missed most of the two toxic rounds when I had the infection last summer) at some point in the future, depending on my strength and continued recovery. It seems uncertainty about the plan for the near future will continue. I feel it just confirms that making my "lists" and trying to knock things off of the lists sooner rather than later is the right move.

Yesterday I started physiotherapy to try to improve my muscle strength and overall range of motion that I lost while hospitalized. I haven't really had formal physio since I left the hospital, so it will be a slow process, but I'm excited to start. This afternoon I go to the hospital for a monthly inhalation of an anti-viral drug, which will give me "coverage" for another month.

On a non-health note, Dad and I are going to the Rascal Flatts concert tonight. I may need to nap tomorrow, but again it will be worth it. If Aunt Marj, Emelda and Grandma A can do it, I can!

Cheers

2 comments:

Louise and David said...

Hi Tricia,
What a wonderful account this latest posting gives of your Regina visit - photos and all. No wonder you were exhausted by the time you arrived back in Calgary.

We don't quite grasp the difference between the chemo you are currently having and the toxic rounds you may have to have sometime in the future. We do, however, appreciate the importance of your "lists" of things to do and we admire your determination to keep on doing whatever is on those lists "sooner rather than later".

I only recently learned how great physiotherapy can be, when I injured my knee and neither rest nor exercise brought me any relief. The therapist explained about finding the balance between what I could already do and what I should challenge myself to try; and always I am "to listen to my body". Progress has been slow but, like you, I am "excited" to be on my way with the help of a professional therapist. Good luck and steady progress!

We hope that you and your dad enjoy the Rascal Flatts concert tonight. With thoughts of your recent visits with your Aunt Marj, Emelda and Grandma A to inspire you, your spirit should feel bouyed up as much by their love as by the lively music.

Thanks again for updating us on your recent activities, Tricia. Continue to take good care of yourself as you toast life every day.
Lots of love, Louise and David

Unknown said...

Hi Tricia!

I heard you talked to Tom a couple weeks ago, and it's so great to hear and read how well you're doing. Everyone always asks about you, and I try to read your blog as often as possible. You are truly an inspiration and so beautiful!

Miss you,
Lauren Kelston